Yeah I don't know about this, it sounds rather off.

I date trans women myself, and I've heard many of them tell me their chaser stories. I know quite a few trans people who very much accept themselves for who they are, but are understandably uncomfortable with chasers and chaser behavior. For example, a woman I know who is very comfortable with her gender, went on a first date with a man, and while they were ordering coffee he out front asked about her genatlia, explaining that he was on a date with her because he was hoping she's have a certain type of genitallia. Talking about someone's private on a first date, even before the first course is ordered is quite a creepy feeling. When she was ambitious about what she had going on downstairs, he left, making it clear his intentions were to interact with certain genetallia rather than form a relationship with her. I am by far a rather kinky person, however, treating a person's body like they are a vehicle for sexual fulfillment rather than a human being having a close personal experience with, can be rather degrading if that's not your thing. Yes people have gentallia preferences, which is fine. But being attracted to a disembodied transness rather than being attracted to a human being who happens to be trans, feels rather objectifying, and I don't think anyone enjoys that very much.

Don't get me wrong, I'm sure there are many trans women of course who want a partner who does accept and appreciate the fact they are trans, but being uncomfortable with being made into a fettish object does not imply a trans woman doesn't accept her self.