Well said. As a feminist, I think the pressures society places on men is really suffocating and unhealthy. Men are lonely, not really allowed to form close bonds with each other. They are trained that being lonely is expected because their suppose to be strong. If they are married they are taught to lean on their wives for emotional support and labor since their not allowed any. Patriarchy is harmful to men, they need community and to be allowed normal human emotions as well.