Uuuuummmmmm no. No. No.

So I’m in a lesbian relationship. And yes, I use a strap on with my gf. Our sex toys are light baby blue and lavender, specifically so they don’t resemble men.
I use toys because there are nerve endings in my vagina that feel good when penetrated, it has nothing to do with a penis.
Yes, some of our toys are roughly penis no is shaped, but that’s to hit certain curves and shapes, but f me if we ever consider one a penis. That would be really creepy.
Also, neither one of us is dominant as you say.
To be clear, we are both top leading switches, but that’s a kinky thing, which isn’t relevant to whatever your writing about here.
Are you an actual lesbian? Have you had sex with a woman? Because it sounds like you have no idea what you are taking about.
I suppose my girlfriend is a bit butchy, not really though, she has long hair and likes girly things, she’s just a bit of a
badass in her leather and all…but this article sounds like a straight persons distorted understanding of lesbians.