Ugh. It’s clear to me from this article that the straights are not okay.
Trading stability for sex? Is that what heterosexual relationships are about? Ugh. How awful.
I recently had a baby with my lesbian partner.
I personally love sex, but seeing as I am leaking milk from my tits, and it’s ground zero down there, and there’s a small human sucking on me and cudgeling me, my libido is gone. Can’t wait until I feel like a human again and get to enjoy someone touching me.
Why can’t marriage just be two people who enjoy being together, love each other, and raise a family together? Why this exchange for stability and sex? And as far as I know, men want kids just as much as women do. Surely men want stability to raise their children just as much as women do?
Personally I can rely on myself for stability. I’m here because I love my partner. But truthfully she is also a great Mom so it feels right being a parent with her. Let’s just go back to people sharing their life together-when did these things become so damn transactional?
And yes, everyone should get that 1 hour a night my girlfriend gets to play video games after the baby goes to sleep. Maybe everyone wants that.