This is great!
My top love languages are 1) words of affirmation 2) quality time

My partners are
1) physical touch
2) quality time

We both love quality time,
I make sure to touch a lot, but if it’s not your love language, it can be hard to speak it.

I once had a partner before my current partner, who has the same love languages as my current partner. When I told her I was words of affirmation, she flat out told me that was her worse category but for my sake she’s try, I guess.
I felt very unloved by her. My current partner flat out does try though. This is a great method!