This is a really good examination of motherhood, privilege, expectations, and culture.
I like how you mentioned anger. It made me think, we don't really have a space of an image of a Mother being angry. Angry Mom's are seen as crazy, evil, while angry men and fathers are strong people making change, standing up for themselves and their families, and should be heard. If a mother shows the slightest amount of anger, she is liable to be called a Karen, or deemed abusive, narcissistic, or mentally ill.