There are lots of different types of cupcakes, and lots of ways to feel close.

Have you tried other flavors of cupcakes? Even if you and your wife are not interested in cupcakes, there are still lots of things that are nice.

I like to bake cookies that are in the shapes of cuddly teddy bears. They are warm and cuddly and feel very nice and close when my partner and I bake them, and it's a great activity I can do with my partner that makes us feel close.

There are so many wonderful deserts out there, that are even better than cupcakes. It's easy to think the whole world revolves around cupcakes, that's what we are often groomed to beleive, and that it's the best representation of intimacy. But in truth there are some wonderful deserts out there I never would have explored if I had just eaten cupcakes my whole life and felt in love with them. This may be a great opportunity for you and her to find other deserts you can enjoy together. The real key here is, don't compare them to cupcakes. Let deserts be their own special things. Leave the cupcakes behind and go on a wonderful baking adventure together. Also key is to never yuk another's yum. If you two can just explore what you like, don't shame each other different deserts, but be honest about what deserts your comfortable trying with your partner, without criticizing another's interest. It can be hard if your whole life you've mostly just had cupcakes, but there are so many deserts out there, there maybe something better.