Said so well said and true. As a liberal white woman, my friends and social circle call me out if I saw anything sexists, racist, or queer phobic. I’d say it was more insightful then judgmental. It takes a community to fight racism, even inside myself. A fish doesn’t know what wet is, so I listen and learn. Men can create a community where they do the same, many already do, but not wi rape.
Excellent article.