Perhaps you should consider not dating Gold Diggers then. I know plenty of women who make more money than their partners. As the author keeps mentioning, it's about having a deeper connection. If your experience is that women are hypergamous, stop dating hypergamous women. Most women are not gold diggers, perhaps look at women who are not. Hypergamy is not built into us like ovaries or uteruses. Some women are, some are not.