OMG These are horrible things to say to anyone! It's terrible you've had to experience this! My white lady privilege is showing here, I can't believe people say these things to you, and other black people. What is wrong with with people? I wear a lot of bright colors, and if anything people complement my bold choice of clothing. And bright colors DO NOT go with my skin tone, but no one cares.
Even the compliment one bothers me. Thanks for showing me this corner of the world that I don't know.