Oddly I have run into several here on medium. Or at least former incels, who seem to still be keeping the mentality. Perhaps they aren't really incels, but they are men complaining that 80% of women are only into the top 20% of men, and that because of this they can't get laid. They often talk about how shallow we women are and all we want are "Chads" and we don't really know what we want but they do and they understand us and need to listen to them. They sound like incels, and seem to have that mentality, but maybe they technically aren't members of that group. It's very weird because they are happy to mansplain my own desires as a woman to me, and when I tell them otherwise they tell me I'm wrong. It's very weird. They assume they know me better than I know myself, and they don't even know my name or who I am, but somehow being a woman means they know exactly who I am.