Never thought about this. As a woman, I’ve asked out other women to coffee dates multiple times, and enjoyed many. But if that’s not someone’s jam that so be it. Some people aren’t into coffee dates, okay then. If I were her I wouldn’t block him, just respond with I would rather go —-.
I’ve also learned coffee dates aren’t really very eventful unless they are in the evening.
But whatever, dating is weird. I guess coffee dates aren’t the thing nowadays.