Lol, as a woman in lesbian relationships, I have to say you make a good point here. I’ll never forget the time I went to give blood, and was afraid I wouldn’t qualify due to a recent sexual partner. However soon I realized all the amazing sex I had didn’t count as sex to the Red Cross, especially since there wasn’t any exchange of fluids. In fact in many people’s definitions of sex, I am abstinent though I have a rather intense sex life. Some people just don’t consider lesbian sex actual sex.