Jim, I hate to break it to you, but the truth is every person alive is infact responsible for themselves. Each adult person bears the responsibility for their own life, that includes responsibility for feeding themselves, finding shelter, getting a job/aquiring money, happiness, and yes, sex. Each person's sex is their own responsibility. I'm very sorry if you were taught something else, it is a lie. When we are children we rely on our parents for food, safety, shelter, etc. But as we grow up, we learn to take responsibility for ourselves, and that includes sex.
No person born, is owed sex from another person. None. I know that seems very unfair, but each person is responsible for their own happiness. No one is owed. I personally many times have wanted to have sex and did not have access to a partner, but God gifted me with two hands that reach, and that's what I've always done.
Yes, some people are born I guess as trust find babies and have financial independence, that is a thing. I was born with none of those things. I worked very hard for all that I had, none of it was handed to me, and I don't owe anyone, save maybe my parents for raising me, anything.
Certainly neither I, nor any woman, owe anyone sex because we were born into a world with infrastructure. My entire adult life I have been an independent person, and the fact that infrastructure exists does not entitle men born today sex. Each person today, man or woman was born into the same infrastructure and the fact previous generations have built it does not entitle anyone to sex. No one is entitled to sex. I'm so sorry if you were not raised to understand that, it must be very frustrating. Part of growing up and becoming an adult is taking responsibility for your own life, your own needs, and your own sexuality.
"I understand that you chose and had t work, as a woman. Good idea. For Men that's not a choice, they all have to, by default."
I never had a choice as a woman to work or not work. It's a human default to grow up and work. Contrary to popular belief, there was never a line up of men waiting to pay me to be their trophy wife. There's actually not many men around who can afford that kind of thing, probably like 5% of people, and honestly I can't compete with the top 5% of women in looks or anything else. I really don't have the option to just marry some rich guy. We are all born expected to work Jim, believe it or not being a woman doesn't give me a free life ticket. Again, I'm really sorry if you were taught something else, but it is infact a lie.
Jim part of growing up is learning to accept responsibility for yourself and learning that no but you is going to take care of you, and that includes sexually. I'm sorry, but being born a man does not entitled you to have someone else meet your sexual needs. It's honestly just not the way things work.
