It's very easy to be pro-life, when you know you will never have to be pregnant.

Pregnancy and child birth can kill women. Pregnancy can force women and even children into marriages they don't want.

Molesting a child, and then when she get's pregnant, making her an 'honest women' by marrying her is something that has happened many times in this country.

I know of 2 different women personally, who were rapped by older men, and would have been forced to marry their rapists by their church and family or face becoming exiles from their communities had they not had abortions quietly, then dismissed the men from their lives. Neither of them wanted to marry their rapists, or suffer the bodily damage of pregnancy.

Not all women "will be fine" after having children. Some are not healthy enough to have children. Some don't want children. Being a mother may not give a person "the drive you need to achieve your goals" especially if a woman has no support to help her with her child. You will never know what it's like to have a baby, to go through that pain, do have that damage done to your body, to risk your life, it's very easy for you to tell other people what they will have to do through is no big deal and they should just be fine with it.

It's not okay to force people to breed.