In a VR fantasy yes, horrible stuff does happen, but it’s part of the game.

-getting rapped was not part of the game the 16 year old was playing.

Yes horrible things happen when playing VR, it is part of the game. Getting rapped is not part of the game, it’s full on bullying. If the girl signed up to play a game where rape was part of game I could see that. But that’s more happened.