I’m writing this now because victim-blaming has to stop for us to eradicate rape culture and end sexual violence

The above quote says it all. That being said, it takes courage to write about rape and sexual violence. It takes courage for a wide variety of reasons, one of which is you will get trolls like the one you mentioned who will victim blame you. But you still wrote it. Thank you for that. That is heroism, to do what you believe is right, even when it is scary.