I’m so glad to hear this perspective! It needs to said. As a feminist, I think we need to speak up when men are discriminated against for their gender, and this is an example of sexism for sure!
My aunt, is color blind. A condition which is very rare in women, but she has it. Many people don’t believe her, because she is a woman, they assume only men are color blind. But she is. The reverse is true as well.