If a man implants a woman with sperm, he is literally giving her his sperm. He implants his sperm inside her body. He is giving away his sperm. So at that point, he no longer owns it, and the woman he gave it to can whatever she pleases.
The other day someone gave me a gift. I chose not to keep it. It was mine.
When someone places something inside of your body, it is now yours.
If someone donates an organ to another person, that organ is no longer theirs, because it is inside another person's actual body and they have to suffer the consequences of having it in their body.
The other day someone fed me an apple. After they placed the apple in my mouth, they have no say about if I chose to swallow or digest it, because it is inside my body now, and only I make choices about what happens to my physical body.
If a man doesn't want to be a father, he should not give his sperm away. If he wants to consent to pleasure, not fatherhood, then he needs to not give away his sperm. He can wear a condom, he can chose to orgasm outside the vagina, or perhaps have a vasectomy If you place something inside of another person, you no longer own it, and you are consenting to letting that other person make their own choices with your gift because it belongs to them. Boys need to be taught to be responsible with their sperm if they want to control if they want to be fathers or not. If they want a say what is done with their sperm, then don't give their sperm to another person. Accidents do happen, condoms break, people get lost in the moment, then I suggest every couple sit down before having sex and come to an agreement about what to do in the case of a pregnancy. That is the responsible thing to do. Perhaps even sign a contract. Sex is something that has very serious consequences, and these consequ3nces should be discussed ahead of time.
But once a woman is actually impregnanted, if there isn't already an agreement, then sorry, he gave her his sperm. He chose to give her his sperm, and she has a right to do what she needs to do to keep her body safe.
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