I think the specific questions you are asking may not be answerable by women as a whole. Women different from each other and all have different thought and opinions on some of these things m. Some women like it when men approach them and ask them out, some women do not. It probably depends on the situation, the safety level they feel for the guy, and the woman in question’s preference. It’s probably different for each woman.
Many women would like a guy who makes the same amount of money as her, personally I don’t, and I don’t know many women who do. One of my close friends is a surgeon who has a stay at home husband she suppprts full time and is quite happy with that. My ex husband made way less money than me, which I was fine with, and I know other women who are happy their partners are secure enough with their wives making more than them. But I’m sure there are women who want a man who out earns them, that’s also true. It depends on the person, their preferences, their situation, their values. Women do not all have the same ideas, values, beliefs, and wants in a relationship. We are complex individual people. Yes, there are things we universally don’t like, we don’t want to be raped, abused, cheated on, harassed, etc. but in terms of our relationship preferences, that is highly personal and may differ from person to person. Things like who should make the first move, who makes more money, they’re not an all or nothing question. It’s different for each person. People, including women, are diverse.