I talked to a gay guy once here on medium, who took issue with me saying trans people are worth dating. He accused me of trying to impose conversion therapy on gay people by saying it’s okay to trans person. While I’m not about shaming one’s preference, if you only date cis that’s your preference, he tried to tell me that saying queer people can date trans people was the same as trying to change a gay persons sexual orientation. I found this quote trans phobic, dating a trans person does not make someone less gay, but he acquired it to conversion therapy. Ugh. Totally gross.