I started squirting in my mid 20’s. Yes, it can be a bit messy, but mostly my partners think it’s cool. Once partner told me she always thought it was just a myth and not something women actually did. I’ve noticed it comes from vaginal orgasms rather than clitorial ones. I very much enjoy vaginal stimulation, many women don’t, I’ve hear there is a link there.
So here’s an interesting thing, my girlfriend also squirts. And I know it’s not urine, it like comes out of her vagina, trust me my hand is in her when she does it, and her urethra is not in there. But the interesting part is she is a post-opp trans woman. Like where is this fluid actually coming from? Her prostrate? It’s a very small amount, a fraction of what I expel. I’m totally mystified what this fluid coming out of her vagina is. She’s not supposed to be able to self lubricate. Anyway, if anyone had a clue, I’d love to hear.