I respect your writing John! Sometimes I agree, sometimes I don’t.
If anyone cheats, that is terrible. Man, woman, nonbinary, intersex, cheating is a horrible breach of trust.
Cheating is bad regardless if you’re a man or a woman. People try to validate cheating due to their gender; gross. Some people will argue men should cheat because they’re incapable of monogamy and that’s just how men are. Some people argue women cheat because they’re evil, or oppressed, etc.
cheaters will cheat and will try to justify it it by any means possible, gender or otherwise. I’m sure there are some good reasons to cheat somewhere, but forgive me if I can’t think of any or have ever heard of a good reason for cheating.
People who are cheated on will be hurt, and may be so hurt they blame it on the gender of their cheating partner. They may even get bitter and hate that gender.
I agree, cheating isn’t okay period. Who cheats more; men or women? Idk. But I’m pretty sure gender isn’t the reason cheaters cheat.