I quite enjoyed your lovely story here...but I'm totally confused as to why you wrote is a response to my comment. It appears you are discussing dating advice for men, and different types of men in the dating world, whiles I was talking about how patriarchy is harmful to men using my own relationships as an example by addressing the concept of WOMAN as some scary alien force mentioned in the article. Perhaps you intended to a response to the article in general?
Anyway, dating advice is a crazy place, and there are different types of men who need different types of advice in the dating world. And yes, women may often give the wrong advice based off of their own experiences which isn't necessarily the situation of the person needing advice. Of course I will agree with you there. :)