I mean I hear what you are saying, but what does that have to do with Emma? Emma has never had any tendencies even close pedophilia (neither have I). She’s an honest, good, sweet person just living her life, going to work everyday. I’m happy to be in a relationship with her because she is supportive and loving and a good communicator and a good person all around. She has never hurt anyone and isn’t a threat to anyone. Yes, she is trans, and I know many people don’t believe it’s a viable identity, but as much as people debate ideologies around gender, it doesn’t stop the fact she’s just a simple, honest good person living her life like I am. She poses no threat to my family. There are no “female” only spaces in my family she’s trying to infiltrate. She’s certainly not dangerous.

Jeff is legit afraid to let my niece meet her because she is trans. He is afraid of interaction with a trans woman. Afraid of trans. That is transphobia.