I don’t know of any women who are into hypergamy.
I have found one on medium who is into it, but other than that, in person, I have never meant any. Most women simply want a loving partner they are compatible with, who respects them, and o capable of loving the. Now most people still want partners with good jobs, who have their skit together, but I don’t know anyone looking for the top 20%. I know at least one couple where the wife is a surgeon and her husband is a stay at home dad.
The women who are into hypergamy are very focused on their looks, they are often very beautiful as they see it all as transactional, their attractiveness for financial security. Most women get careers, such as myself, do so in order to have financial independence so we can marry whoever we want; not be a trophy wife. Men taking care of themselves is sexy, but we’re not all trying to mary up, just someone who has their life together, not some super rich dude.
I recommend staying away from hypergamous women if you’re looking for an actual connection. Yes, hypergamous tend to be the top or attractiveness, so be open to date someone less attractive for connection.
My first husband for example made 1/3 of what I made, but he was a loving, supportive spouse, he was also shorter than me, at 5ft 3. I can name at least 3 couples I know where the woman put earns her male partner.


Women we want people who are grown up and have their stuff together, but few of us want to be trophy wives. There will always be hypergamy, but few women are into it. If it seems like every woman is hypergamous, your looking at the wrong dating pool. Go for women a little more homely, who aren’t focused on being the hottest girl on the room.