I’m pretty sure Jesse Singal is bad at sex, though! Bad at sex in a particular, entitled manner informed by contempt for his partner and their pleasure. I’m sure of this because (a) he’s spent his entire career fulminating against other people’s needs and bodily autonomy and (b) he thinks the very concept of making sex fun for the other person, checking in on them, asking them what they like, providing simple courtesies like passing a water bottle across the mattress to someone who is (if you’ve been doing your job) sweaty and tired, is just very, very silly.
Jude Ellison S. Doyle