Hi Perry,

I am also disabled. I have autism, ADHD, dyspraxia, and I also losing my mobility due to a horrible disease called lipedema. I too have struggled with codependency, I have spent the last 10 years attending CODA (codependence anonymous) which really helped me deal with my codepenent tendencies. I high

Disabled people are just as valuable as able people. I understand the urge to please others, but being dialed doesn't make anyones value dependent on being needed by someone else. Disabled people, we are just as valuable as anyone else.

I recommend attending a coda meeting! They have really helped me.