Hey so I know medium is probably not the correct place for this, but....You sound awesome. Wanna go on a date? I live in the San Francisco bay area, where are you at? I'm a bisexual fat femme. I like cheese, exercising, art, and good writers (I hope to be one eventually).
Otherwise, I quite enjoyed your piece.
I have never been able to quite find the fashion style that conveys who I am, and marvel that others do. Anyway, if you're local let's hang out. I'm still confused about fashion, style, and how I fit in to all of it. Besides the usual, I have sensor processing disorder and a behavior known as tactile defensiveness, this makes it hard for me to find clothes I can actually stand touching me. This adds so much complication to dressing, sometimes I just give up. Covid has very much enabled me to that. Anyway, thanks for the thought-provoking piece.
S.R.