Great article! Can I just say, as a feminist, we really need more focus on men and their emotional needs. Patriarchy is toxic to men, it expects them to be in denial of their emotions and their emotional needs. Men are great people with complex emotions, needs, roles. I'm really glad to hear about a man's journey and self reflection on him and his relationships. I wish Tony the best and I'd like to express my empathy for what he's going through.