Great article.

I agree,

Don't Chase Women.

I don't know a single woman who wants to be chased.

I myself have literally been physically chased by a man who wanted to have sex with me, and I didn't enjoy it. Most women find 'chasing' to be creepy and a huge turn off. Express interest, see if she is responsive, if not, move on, you deserve someone who likes you back.

For the record, I date exclusively women myself, so I do know what it's like to try to get a woman interested in you, and yes, rejection does hurt. And yes, it can be hard to approach women, and confusing, and like anyone else, some play games. But still, don't chase, it's creepy and a major turn off.

Chasing is not the same as 'showing effort' or interest.

Showing effort is done by asking a girl out, or asking her about her self, or making your intentions known. Or perhaps getting to know her and complimenting her. If she isn't interested, and is politely making an excuse, walk away. Who cares why she isn't interested, it's her deal and no one else's. If she seems up for a date, showing effort means maybe planning a simple date around mutual interests, noticing her outfit, complimenting her, and talking to her, listening to who she is, and maybe buying her a flower (read, one flower). Don't "show effort" until it's clear she is receptive to your advances.

If a woman is not acting super warm around dating you, then cut her off (unless you want to just be friends, which is cool, but really be friends, not "I wish we were having sex" friend). We deserve someone who wants us back. If a woman is playing hard to get, it's too much work. Just express interest, then calmly walk away. If she chases you after that, then maybe she's worth it. If she wants you to chase her more, run for the hills. ICH.