Great article! I’m so tired of incel men ranting about how they will never get women because they’re not rich and handsome. I like that your article articulates there is more than that. My ex husband worked for peanuts, he was also shorter than me (5foot3) and not considered attractive. But we are very happy. He was no hobosexual, but there were definitely other factors going on that made me attracted to him, for own the conversation! I love good conversation and he was all about that. Contrary to what a lot of men believe, attraction isn’t just a formula with scores of body physique, income, confidence, etc. it’s much more complicated that.
I like the way this article brings in the concept of an eargasm, and other things!