As a teacher, and a nuerodiverse person, the way your school treated your daughter makes me furious.

I know I wasn’t there, but I would have given daughter as much time as she needed.
I did pretty well for myself, but the feelings of loneliness and hard work I had to do left me so emotionally broken.
True, in many ways your daughter is probably a strong person, but it takes a toll to go through that. She should have been given that accommodation.