Again, then perhaps avoid hypergamous women. Not all women are hypergamous. Perhaps the only ones you are choosing are. It sounds like from you other comment you did try dating a woman who made more than you, and it didnt work out for whatever reason. Not all women are hypergamous. Try finding a woman who isn’t. Maybe you’re only comfortable with hypergamous women? Maybe you only chose hypergamous women because that’s the kind of women you are attracted to! If so, maybe ask why exactly this is what you are choosing. Do you feel more secure when women depend on you for money? Is this a dynamic you are comfortable with? Be aware your choices of women may not be an accurate sampling of women’s behavior or interests.